Boobie Talk.
Mood:
surprised
Topic: Miscellany
Over the past few days, as so often happens, boobies have thrust themselves into my consciousness at various times and in various forms. No, I've not gone lesbian. But when you're the pregnant mommy of a two-year-old who still clearly isn't weaned in his
heart, as well as a lazy lactivist and the wife of a red-blooded American male, there are boobies lurking around every corner.
This week, boobies and the public use of same for their intended purpose is a hot-button issue due to a negative remark about public breastfeeding made by, of all people, Baba Wawa on
The View. I have the honor of never having seen that show or, indeed, any current show except
Dave the Barbarian. If anything, I'm a little startled by the news that anyone still cares what Barbara Walters has to say about anything apart from the merits of Geritol. However, the idea of public breastfeeding becoming a "mainstream" issue just makes me weary.
Please. I just don't have the strength to imagine what will become of nursing as an "issue" in the hands of Middle America, and all I can say is it's a strange country indeed where women can openly talk about their cheesy see-you-next-Tuesdays in commercials for yeast medication, yet it's considered a political act to breastfeed your baby. Nursing your kid wherever you happen to be is so not a big deal that the idea of actually having to
think about it makes me want to go have a lie-down. Some lactivist I am. You see? Lazy.
I am also thinking about boobies because Matt has clearly not been weaned, despite my best efforts. This is to say that I spend my falling-asleep period with my back to Matt and my forearms crossed against the old milk jugs just to keep him from digging about in my top with his hands, which is his preferred comfort habit when falling asleep. The other night he told me
Don't touch my boobies. I replied that it was kind of rich for
me to hear that particular instruction coming from
him, until it became clear that by "his" boobies he meant
my boobies -- he was instructing me to quit protecting them and give him access already. So help me, I'm going to end up tandem nursing a newborn and a 31-month-old. Again, the very idea of this makes me tired.
While all this was going on, Ben had a sudden change of heart and informed me that after I finish nursing Julia, which we estimate will happen maybe two years from now, he will spring for a boob job. This means one of two things: either (1) he has finally got it through his head that I'm not going to leave him the minute I get my tits done or (2) he has reached the point where my soon to be thrice-postpartum body is really frightening to him. I'm going to set this issue aside for later, because I've got other, more pressing boob matters to worry about.
Maybe I will skip the boob job altogether and just resign myself to aging gracefully, with all the wrinkles and sag and grey hair nature has to offer. Certainly, by the time Julia gets done nursing I will have plenty of all of the above. And by that time, which will be some seven years after conceiving Sam, my boobies will have earned a rest.
Afterword: I'm amending this entry to point out, to those who don't know this, that I weaned Matt from the breast at 26 months because my new pregnancy made nursing so painful it literally made me cry. That is the only reason. I'm all about child-led weaning; the fact that a child is two years old is, in itself, not a reason to wean. Just by way of clarification.
Posted by Gretchen
at 12:15 PM PDT
Updated: Friday, June 10, 2005 3:13 PM PDT